“I Cannot Even Stand Hi”—Why Shaffy Bello’s Comment Is Getting Attention

“I Cannot Even Stand Hi”—Why Shaffy Bello’s Comment Is Getting Attention Veteran Nollywood actress Shaffy Bello has sparked conversations after speaking about how younger people should address older people. Bello said she expects younger people to show respect by using appropriate titles when addressing older individuals. Her comments have attracted attention online, particularly amid a wider conversation about changing attitudes toward respect and social etiquette. The actress's remarks come as Nigerians continue debating whether traditional forms of respect are disappearing among younger generations. For some, the issue is about culture and upbringing. For others, it is about whether respect should depend on age, status or personal relationship. Either way, Shaffy Bello's comments have reopened an old Nigerian debate: Does saying “sir” or “ma” still matter?